I had a miscarriage at 17th week almost and year ago and still sometimes i feel the sense of guilt.
The reason is that i really dont know that why it happened as no test or things were done to find the cause.
on the said date i picked up my toddler son,who was throwing tantrums so maybe coz of his weight,maybe coz of incompetence,i really dont know
i also had vaginal discharge and itchiness,so maybe i had bacterial infection which i didnt get checked and which caused it(i feel so guilty that i didnt get it checked)
Or may be cause of simple chromosomal or placental abnormality in which case this is not my fault.
Still i dont know the cause so i feel so so gulity,i am pregnant again after that and in my 25th week,but all i can think is about the lost baby and that it is because of me.
Please help me in what to do and how to cope.