Hi Rich,
See the terms cauda equina. An area in your lower spine that if adversely affected by the lumbar or disease (MS, tumor, and others), will have an affect on the bowel, bladder, and ones sexuality.
If i understood your correctly, you put off the MRI due to cost. I hope you are having the MRI, and if not, will reconsider. I understand your situation and position. There's nothing more valuable than your health, getting diagnosed and treated. If you let it go, it may get worse and cost even more. The MRI provider will work with you! You may just have to put down a deposit of $25 to $50 at the time of service. Then once you get the bill, contact the business office for payment arrangements---for the rest of your life! Just Kidding! Really, I am! Providers will work with you.