Welcome. I will sometimes get a pain behind my ear, mainly my right ear and it is usually about the level of my ear lobe. If I do not see to it, it will radiate either downward to my arm or to the back of my skull and downward. I use acupressure at the spot of the pain. Acupressure has been my pain relief.
Sometimes, however, acupressure does nothing. On those occasions, I will use cold compresses and lie down.