I have all kinds of bladder issues. And I stay thirsty all the time on top of it! My major issue was urgency, I always had to go & often did not make it in time.
There are many meds out there to help. I have tried 3 or 4, Toviaz works best for me. I also wear a thin bladder pad, just in case. They are wonderful & just take away the possible embarrassment. I did have the problem of not being able to go in the middle of the night & early mornings, which has increased (going to talk to my neuro when I go in a few weeks), I've heard aloe vera juice helps with this, I've tried it, but not enough to really tell a difference. Caffiene (misspelled, do all the time) can make bladder issues worse too. Talk to your neuro, I think I'm on my way to a urologist with all my wacky issues. I have noticed that stress does add to my issues, however, stress isn't leaving my life anytime soon & I am not in a place where I am willing to change it that much yet. I am just looking for things to make it more liveable. Hope we have helped a little.