Hi Michelle
Sorry to hear about all that you are going through and yes stress plays a bug role with MS. Who sent you to that Neuro? Can't you get another one? If you can change, then change, and if you are concerned about finding a nice or a pleasant neuro, call around and ask the person who answers the phone at the prospective neuro's office they can tell you alot. You say, is this DR nice, and does that person like working there? If he treats his help good, then he will treat his patients good.
Get copies of your MRI, and copies of the interpretation of the MRI and if you can get copies of the Neuro office notes, get them too. When it comes to your medical care, you have to be pro active, you are in charge!! Dr's don't like to diagnose MS right off the bat, no matter what symptoms that you have, there are tests that can be run, a lumbar puncture aka spinal tap, and blood tests.
Just remember that not all Neuros have bad bedside manners, just some of them
Let us know what happens, and I am sending you good thoughts
Steph