Thank you for your help John.
Oh sorry, lol, I forgot to say in my original post that my surgeon, the one who did my operation, retired last summer, about 3 months after my surgery.
After surgery my arm was alot betterI had one follow up with him and the surgeon said my family doctor should be able to continue with the follow ups. I didn't ask for a referral at that time because I figured I was on the road to recovery and the surgeon thought I was making good progress.
I asked my family doctor in regards to him doing the follow ups,and he said "If I feel like it."
I could try to get a copy of the surgery report from the hospital (I have never done this before, but I assume patients can acccess this with a consent form, pay a fee?) and see what type of surgery was done.
And if I manage to get a referral for a new surgeon I could take the copy with me.
I do think I need to see someone, it's just I am experiencing so much trouble getting a referal.
My neighbour suggested I go to the ER and tell them that I am experiencing troubles. She thought maybe the hospital would refer me. I think it is a good possibility but at the same time I feel guilty for going to the ER when I am not severly injured or sick, others that need it more than I do.