stretchmarks - Obesity Message Board

kerry96 · 09-15-2004, 12:46 PM

ha ha ha ha

Anti Social · 09-15-2004, 06:06 PM

Hi..If someone truly cares about someone,they like everything about them.They take them for what they are,flaws & all.If you show her & she treats you any differently & shys away from you-then obviously she isnt worth it,and you need to find someone who will take you for what you are,regaurdless of how your body is.
If someone is THAT shallow & leaves,then youre better off.But being 16,I highly doubt that you two are 100% serious and in total love.Youre young still..
Personally,I dont mind about stretch marks,I have a little myself and so does my boyfriend.He is about 5'8-200lbs,Im 5'2-120 lbs..I love him for him & could care less about any bodily flaws..I dont think you should be that worried & if you are,then talk to her about it and see how she reacts,thats the only way of telling whether or not she is the 'right' one..

StephK282 · 10-11-2004, 12:51 AM

I am 16 as well, and I know how you feel. Well, maybe not about the sex part, but about stretch marks. But, for me, it was thigh stretch marks and being at the beach.

So, personally, I could never get on anyone about stretch marks, because then I would be a hypocrit. Stretch marks come and go...I have seen this happen in as little as a year. Some people's skin elasticity just isn't as good as othera. Making fun of you would be like making fun of someone with Diabetes..it probably isn't your fault.

Bride2Be · 10-12-2004, 08:48 AM

Just tell her how you feel about them. She might have some herself?
I have quite a few and my fiance also has them. He's never said anything bad about mine because he cares for me. And his don't worry me at all.

If she cares about you it shouldn't worry her.