a big thankyou to terry, hangtenvetter and aimazing, u dont know how much it means to me just knowing that when admitting my problem u havent turned away thinking im wierd. Its so hard admiting the people thing cause even to me its scary. Im not a stalker and would never do that but i always feel people will think i am. I have only recently admitted to a new psychiatrist this problem after 2 years of seeing different drs. The obsessiveness scares me and i really want help. I am on meds but i agree u need more than meds to help.