Hi everybody

I'm not new to the board, just new to posting. I usually use it for research... Anyhow, I have been trying to find a med to help with the problems I'm suffering from. I have anxiety, depression and OCD. The main one is OCD, from which axiety and depression stem from. I was wondering what medicine is the best for this (and in a perfect world) has the least side effects. I'll give you a little history, I was put on Paxil CR about 2 and a half years ago. It was awful to say the least. I lost 25 pounds and I'm only 120 pounds to begin with. Anyway, it took me way too long to realize this medicine sucked. I shouldn't say it was horrible, it actually worked, but the first two weeks are a huge blur and the withdrawals I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. As soon as I finally started putting some of the weight back on it coincidentally stopped working for me. The doc decided to switch me to Effexor XR. I started taking it about a five weeks ago. This medicine too sucks. I have horrible side effects with it: insomnia, magnified OCD, grinding teeth at night, clenching teeth constantly, etc. So enough rambling, my question is, what medicine should I maybe mention to the doc tomorrow to help with the OCD with minimal side effects?