| Re: Can you tell me about cognitive behavioral therapy?
I have just finished 18 months of CBT for BDD and bulimia. The BDD is still there and i cant see a way out from that, but it has helped me almost recover from the bullimia. CBT encourages you to challenge negative thoughts so you can begin to retrain your brain to think differently, which is why i feel it is useful in dealing with OCD. Thats the best way I can describe it. Through CBT I discovered that relationships are a major trigger for many of my compulsions, it's far too long and complicated a story to go into here, but what im saying is that i didnt even realise that i had a problem with relationships until i started exploring them in relation to my illness. I discovered I have an attachment lifetrap, im not sure what your problem is exactly, but this is a problem many people have and there are lots of self help books out there to explore lifetraps, and how to break them. I have been through cycles of needing men to make me feel wanted, adequate, beautiful, etc.. and for this reason i have made myself avalable to the wrong guys, who i have pressured to keep me, put them under so much pressure they have left me, then ive lost weight to look for good for a new one, put myself about, found an equally bad guy... and it goes on and on... i know all this now, and i recognise why i do the things i do, which is a step in the right direction to making changes... Anyway, i hope this might help in some, and yes, i think CBT may help you, but dont go in expecting miracles, just small changes, lis x
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