Re: GENDER OBSESSION...please diagnose me
Of course diagnosing somebody like this over the internet is virtually impossible (ha, a pun!), but I ahve some thoughts anyway...
I THINK (from what I can read in your post) that the problem (and thus, the answer) lies back in the time when you "couldn't" watch movies with men in them etc. That is how it started, right? There was a time when you really "couldn't"?
Now, you don't say why that was, but it sounds like anything to do with men provoked some thoughts or feelings in you that were really disagreeable to you? And with time you got over that, but now, today, you are afraid they might come back?
If that is true, then not watching/reading/etc anything with men in it could be a kind of avoidance. And it does have the ring of obsessive-compulsive to it. You are afraid of something (e.g. intrusive thoughts, or some perceived danger), you start obsessing about it and it causes a lot of anxiety, and in order to curb the anxiety you feel you need to perform some compulsion (like a ritual, but it can also be an avoidance, in your case it would be turning away from anything to do with men).
Also, you know on some deep level that your fear is irrational, right? That would also be typical for OCD.
I don't know if you want to go into any further debth about what the "men thing" is exactly, maybe it is something embarrassing for you. But let me know if you can relate to what I wrote here...