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Old 12-29-2010, 03:40 AM   #1
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ROCD: New face (love another?)

I use to suffer regular ROCD, i mean, fear to not loving my gf.

Now there is a new thing: I know a girl who is my best friend gf, i admit that i like her, i mean, i feel atracted to her on the phisical aspect. So far so good because it is a normal thing for any guy, but my head is ALWAYS telling me that i actualy love her, that i dont love my gf and that i am lying to my self.
There is physical atraction and i can live whit that (it is normal), but if she says or do something that i like, my head is always saying "would my gf does that" and i am ALWAYS COMPARGIN. It is like everithing she does is ok and everithin my gf does is wrong.

I keep looking at her facebook to see what i feel every day.
My therapist told me that it is ocd because it has the same symptoms.

Has i sayed, she has a boyfriend (my friend) and it doesnt hurs me, i mean, i want her to fade away, i dont want to BE WHIT her or HAVING HER for me.

All i want is to be whit my gf, who is the best thing that ever happened to me.

What can you guys say about these?

 
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Re: ROCD: New face (love another?)

So that people, good friends, don't get hurt it would do good for you to put some distance between you and your friend. Try to stay busy and spend lots of time with your gf so that the temptation of thinking of your friend is not there so much.

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