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Old 08-25-2001, 08:27 PM   #1
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Help! My family is being accused of child abuse and I am absolutely positive that there has to be some other explanation.

My grandson is a preemie. He weighed 2lb.6oz. at birth. He is now 4 months old and is up to 10 lb. 11 oz. About 5 weeks ago he began to develop bruises on his body. At first they were small and didn't seem too bad. The doctor said he probably had very delicate skin and was getting them from something he was laying on. He bruises from the slightest pressure. For example, a bruise on his arm from his pacifier and the perfect outline of his little toes on the sole of his foot just from curling his toes down.

The latest bruises are on his shoulders and we believe they are from his car seat belt. They are quite large. My daughter-in-law took him to the doctor and pointed them out. Then, our nightmare began. We are now being treated like criminals.

If you have ever heard of anything like this, please reply. We are frantic. We are being investigated. We have nothing to hide. But, I'm not sure that anyone is actually trying to find a medical answer to this.

Besides being worried about the accusations, we are frantic about what could be wrong with the baby. While they are wasting time trying to pin this on someone, his life could be in danger.

 
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Old 08-25-2001, 10:03 PM   #2
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I don't want to scare you, but you have every reason to be worried. A similar thing happened in my family. It was like 1970, my parents had my sister and my brother, David. He fell off the couch while taking a nap and broke his femur. They took x-rays and to make a long story short, they took him away saying that my dad beat him. They only took him away and never even looked at my sister, he was about six months old. Years later, in 95, my sister had searched for him and found him, then we all met him. Come to find out, all the extra xrays that they said they took to prove all the other broken bones were never taken. My brother had been in the military, and they had told him the only bone ever broken was his femur. they could tell from calcification.

Anyway, my first advise (and I'll ask my mom to add anything else) would be question EVERYTHING. My dad took polygraph tests and passed and they still thought he was beating a baby, which my dad could never do. trust me. ALso, get copies of everything. This could be costly, because docs usually charge for medical record copies, but it'll be worth it. Get medical records, all reports, x-ray copies if you can. And make sure you read everything, so that if they try to slip it in, you know. I think I'd also consult an attorney, if you haven't already. We found so many errors in my brothers case.

As for what it could be. I think hemopheliacs bruise easily, but you'd know abou this, I think. Then there is that osteogenesis, where the bones are like glass, and I've read that pressure that doesn't break the bones, bruises the skin. My last thought is this...my sister in law (10) was always getting cuts bruises (that wouldn't heal) and then get bruises ontop of bruises. She would rub up against something and have the worst bruises or her skin would literally break open. A simple fall leads to 25 stitches. Just the other day we saw a bruise on her skin and asked her what happened and she said she didn't know, she leaned on the table. Well, she has something called Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. Which means she gets hurt really easily. I think it's slightly rare, but I'd look into that one.

Sorry this has been so long, I hope it helps, and I really hope everything turns out well.

 
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Thanks for your advice. We are contacting an attorney on Monday morning. I will get copies of everyting and I intend to insist that he be examined at another hospital, if this one doesn't come up with an answer.

Again, thank you. I'm glad you found your brother.

 
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The baby should have a thorough medical exam before anyone is accused of anything. There are rare disorders out there and innocent mothers have gone to prison because of undetected rare disorders. The pacifier and toe impression you desribed seem to point to something wrong with the baby. There could be a problem with the blood clotting (not necessarily hemophilia). If something is wrong with the baby I hope it can be treated. Good luck.

 
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Get a full blood work up...get all the levels tested.
I have low iron and a few other low levels in various things and delicate skin. Mine bruises very easy and always has. So get that done...it may cost but it will be worth it in the long run. Get a second or third opinion.
Half the time I have no clue about bruises until my hubby asks me what I did to get it.
Good lucka nd I hope things work out.

 
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