puzzling neighbor - Open to All Other Health Topics Message Board

sweetwawa · 01-28-2002, 10:21 PM

i have a guy neighbor who is not being fair w/me.
i think he is playing games.
i just moved in the block and want to make a good impression.
what do i do?
we have flirted and i don't trust him.
i feel uncomfortable already.

Starbuk498 · 01-29-2002, 10:39 AM

SWEET,

Why don't you try talking to him? Small talk always helps....
why don't you trust him and what kind of flirting have you already done.......and why do you feel uncomfortable??

Stefanie

sweetwawa · 01-29-2002, 10:43 AM

well he's flirted w/me,asked me to come join him and his friends to watch football and such.
i am getting all kinds of mixed signals.
well, see, i moved in 3 months ago.
now i think he is throwing other girls in my face to get me jealous.
i don't know i just smell a rat.

Starbuk498 · 01-29-2002, 11:02 AM

Sweet,

If he has invited you to go over......why don't you go? Just go as a friend.....and see what happens.

But, if you smell a rat as you say.......those are probably your instincts telling you something.....

I don't know the whole situation, but I would give it a shot.....you really have nothing to loose. You might even gain a good friend.

Remember, you don't "owe" him anything.

stefanie

sweetwawa · 01-29-2002, 04:42 PM

i think he's thowing another woman in my face on purpose.

i also think they harrassed me in a chatroom.

do u believe this?
He flirted w/me then she joined in and tried to intimidate w/him together.