I have a boyfriend who is the sweetest thing. we have been going out for 6 months. i think i really am getting stuck on him yay!
but
he over reacts a lot he like doesn't throw fits but he yells and stomps off he has never hurt anyone and never will but i need to know the cause for that kind of behavior because it scares him too.
if you know anything please post
~Toni
hmmm... sounds like this could escalate into a real problem. If he is the kind and understanding person that he seems to be other times, then talk to him about it. Pick up some pamphlets on abusive relationships that have warning signs.. I can get access to one tomorow for you. I'l try to remember and post later.
Good Luck
Rachel
Understanding there is a problem is the first step, and most important. You should let him know that if he's willing to get help then you are willing to support him..but it won't change on it's own. Depending on finiances he should seek out some counseling....i know here me and my bf take it through community services...it goes on a sliding scale so it only costs $5/session...you may have something similar in your area so it's something to look into. He should try and get some one on one couseling for him..mainly because if things don't work out between you two he should still try to fix whatever is wrong...if possible you can also try counseling together...but as i said his aggression is his problem, and it will be with him long after your gone. If he's not willing to get help then i would suggest moving on, his behaviour will only get worse without proper intervention. Sit down and have a talk with him when he's in a good and understanding mood.
The fact that you see there is a problem is a good thing. Now there is a couple thing I think that you can do. One is to sit him down when he is not mad. And tell him that when he gets mad you get scared. do not say it mad or upset to him. Than ask him if he is will to go to anger managerment.
The other choice you have is to leave him. I know that it sounds hard but if you are scared of him than maybe that is need if he will not go to angry management
got to tell my boyfreind 
I have a boyfriend who is the sweetest thing. we have been going out for 6 months. i think i really am getting stuck on him yay!
One is to sit him down when he is not 
mad. And tell him that when he gets mad you get scared. 
do not say it mad or upset to him. Than ask him if he is will to go to anger managerment. 
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