help about a guy! - Open to All Other Health Topics Message Board

hacky_sack_girl · 06-03-2003, 03:19 PM

I don't know where else to post this, so if it's in the wrong spot, sorry.
Okay, here's the problem, there is this guy and one day without permission from the guy or me, one of my friends tried to hook him up with me. He said he would go out with me if I was older or he was younger because there is an age gap (the kind of gap that could get him in big trouble) he doesn't know I like him, but i don't know if i should tell him about it or just let it go and try to find someone younger, only, there is no one else that would even be an option-(all are jerks). Should I just wait and see if anyone else comes along?
Should I tell him how i feel or should I keep quiet about it, because he could seriously get in trouble.
PLEASE HELP!

greatgirl · 06-03-2003, 05:50 PM

Hey!
Well, I think he would only get in big trouble if he started having sex with you, right?
But all I can see now is that you plan to get to know eachother better. So why not giving it a shot? (Unless you are 14! LOL) How old are you?
How old is he?
Who knows, you might end up finding out he is not what you thought anyway and will not want more. Take things slow and find out about him and his ways, what he is like etc.
Good luck!

zuzu8 · 06-03-2003, 06:23 PM

Hi- Have you tried posting this on the Teen Issues Board? You'll probably get plenty of help/ideas from both girls and guys alike.

zuzu xx

hacky_sack_girl · 06-09-2003, 04:35 PM

I'm 15 and he is 19 (i know, big gap) but there are things I can talk to him about that my best friends wouldn't understand, he's just so open minded. I know it will hurt for me but i think i will wait until he gets a girlfriend and see how he treats her, if it doesn't work out with them and he was nice to her i might ask him out. If it does work out at least he'll be happy (this sounds really corny to me but that's what i think will have to happen.) I will try and get some advice from the teen boards though, thanks for your posts you guys!