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Old 06-07-2003, 10:46 AM   #1
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I need help. I am overly obsessed with my boss. I can't explain it. I am in a relationship, but I dont know how happy I am. I look for the attention I need from my boss. He is a wonderful guy. But he also is in a relationship. What do I do?

 
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Seems familiar with the 'im in love with a married man' post...................

 
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Maybe sounds weird but this situation is very pshycological. Being attracted to your boss and probably even having fantasys about him. Doesnt it seem just a little dangerous and exciting when you think of having an affair with him? Thats the reason...its exciting..and always keeps you wondering what it would be like. And if it ever did happen how exciting it would be. But thats only how it seems. Heres a warning...i wouldnt go through with any of it. It would cause ALOT more pain with not only one relationship but 2. And if there is children involoved in either of the relationships thats just more of a reason not to pursue it. Leave it as a fantasy. Do something at home with your spouse...do role play. it might help! spice things up!

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Could it be that you are attracted to the way your boss treats you? The praise, encouragement, ego boost etc which he gives you as a person. Possibly you have lacked certain needs/emotions/feelings from other important people in your life, such as parents, siblings, boyfriend and you feel that you are getting some of this from your boss and you are then in turn mistaking his generous, friendly nature as "love" while from his perspective, he see's you as a wonderful and great employee, but that's where the line stops.

You don't say whether you are attracted to the way your boss looks physically. Is he a similar age to you? Does he do anything in partiuclar to single you out of everybody else? does he flirt with you/others? does he have a reputation?

I once had a boss who loved the attention of the ladies, would have a little flirt and pass comments which often had a double meaning. I know his wife didn't like it, but she needn't have worried as he'd never stray. We all used to say that if a woman made a pass at him he wouldn't know what in hell to do :P

 
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