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Mickey864 · 09-27-2003, 12:33 AM

Thank You all for your wonderful advice re: My heart is broken. I talked to him and I expressed my self very clearly. He told me that I am paranoid and to suspicious. He expressed his love for me, he also stated that I am his one and only, he thinks about me daily, how sorry he was about this incident and he won't let it happen again.He told me he is mad at me because I don't trust him enough but was really was shocking is he asked me to have his baby and he wants to start a family with me. I am scared and embarrassed but do forgive him although I still feel wary of what he did. Thanks again and I will do my best to keep my relationship alive.

Audrey-B · 09-27-2003, 01:07 AM

I replied to your other post but can't help adding my opinion here too. He seems to be using a lot of emotional type blame against you. He was mad at you? and called you suspicious and paranoid? and then wants you to have his baby? seems like he might feel guilty and it's easier to blame you, then feels he's gone too far and offers to have a baby with you to cheer you up. Think carefully before you decide to have a baby.

I still dont understand why that other womans sick child would be asking for your b/f?

Want 2 B Well · 09-27-2003, 06:29 AM

I am glad you went to talk to him. But sweetie when a man calls you paranoid and suspicious, that is NOT a good sign. He should be saying... "I understand why you are angry as I went to a womens house under protest from you".
Asking to have his baby is really a desperate ploy to keep you in his hip pocket. Just wondering if he lived with you rent-free?
I hear that you love him but please keep your eyes peeled, OK???