don't want to cry at my wedding (man)
I have a problem that is causing me great anxiety.
If I start to cry I am incapable of speech.....I sob, and carry on terribly, to my huge embarassment. I am due to get married in july this year (05) and am dreading it now, as i am going to cry with the pure joy of it all, and then what do i do? I have vows to make, speeches to get through etc.
I accept that it is OK to cry, but when it disables me so, what do I do?
I have even insisted that my involvement consists of simply saying "I do" or similar. Even then there is a good chance I may not even be able to blurt THAT out without bawling my heart out.
Oh I hope desperatley that someone can give me some help with this.......
More info.......I was married before, and had the same fears, an understanding cleric suggested I had a drink prior to the ceremony, but even with booze in me, the day was ruined for me as my bottom lip trembled uncontrollably as if i were at a funeral! till finally i sobbed like a baby.
people wondered what the hell was going on! and in spite of it being "acceptable" these days i really do not want to behave that way. my bride to be deserves better if nothing else.
Please help if you can......thanks