| Re: Broken Femur Bone
Please don't keep blaming yourself.As you stated, accidents DO happen.You couldn't have possibly known that by just carrying your child down a hill would result in this situation.One big thing to remember here is that kids have a much better ability to heal than most adults and with proper treatment and rehab, she will be back on track before you know it.My son went through liver failure and ended up needing a transplant at age 12-13.i know how you feel just standing there and unable to really do anything to help.Just be there for her and love her and she will come out of this just fine.as long as you feel comfortable with her docs and her ongoing care,just try and relax a little(i know, easier said than done,right?)but if at any time during her healing process that you start to feel that things are not going as they should or something just is 'not right' with treatment or a particular doc, don't be afarid to voice your opinion.You are your childs advocate,she is counting on you to help her get through this whole thing.If you don't speak for her,she will not have a voice.i had to do this for my son as well.Some days were much easier than others but if you really want the best care possible for your child,you just do it.And don't let any doc or other medical professional intimidate you,K?take a little time out for yourself,you need to have a clear head during this whole situation and release all the stress of the day that tends to build up.even getting out for an after dinner walk will do wonders,trust me.i am sure this will all be just a bad memory soon and your daughter will probably not even ever remember that it happened.Just deal with what you need to deal with and then move on.take care,and please keep me posted.marcia
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