Sunlover

You may just be small boned. My daughter has the opposite problem! Too bad you can't change bones with her! She complains hers are too big and they are big! Her wrists are 50% bigger than mine (like if we would squeeze our skin until we touch bone). She complains the same way as you only the opposite. And NO ONE on either side of OUR family has bones like hers either! Lifting the weights is a good idea! I wish I knew the answer, but the only thing I can say is that some people just have bigger bones than others, and there's not much that can be done short of gaining weight to add meat around them. Many 17, 18 year olds who were like you are now very nice looking men with great bodies (like at 35-40...), so while all your peers are getting fat, and growing bellies, you'll look terrific - I know it's not much comfort now, but you'll be thankful for this!