Originally Posted by simon111
hi im in a relationship and me and my girlfriend have been argueing alot,she asked why i hate women...which i dont..i googled that question and found a page on narcissism i read it an it described myself...every thing i do and the way i am..i dont want to be this person and want to know if theres any help i could get to stop myself becoming worse and destoying my relationship and the womon i love.. please help
There are 2 problems that are in 1 problem, that being the internet. First, you looked at google to see who you are (instead asking yourself that question) and second, you googled to find yourself, looking for narcissism. I think google nailed it, right? The fact of you googling yourself makes it a waste of time. You knew it before you did it. If you would have googled about your girlfriend, I bet she would have been thrilled and probably give you a big hug.
Do you ask her about her day is going and really mean it? You would be surprised at how a little humble caring about a loved one can go a long way. But you can't just do it one time. It has to be a way of life. You are not giving in, but giving out. btw, I don't know why they bleeped that word??? In other words, you love yourself, is that better????