Hello this is my 1st ever posting.

I have had this problem with my ears for as long as i can remember!
When i wear earphones or headphones my ears start swelling up and then the earphones are pushed out and wont go back in. If i wear head phones only the outer parts of my ears swell. The headphones do leave me with pressure pains after i take them off when i have watched a movie.
Is there any way i can get my ears to be less sensitive like with creams or any health supplements that may aid me with better protection!
I want to simply listen to music on the bus! Without the infection.
Its no insect bite! as some of my other google searches have found.
My ears even swell up when i touch them with my fingers.
I used to think maybe it happens to everybody! and they got used to it.
But now i hope i am not simple a rare person who is effected.
I would be greatful to any feed back regarding this matter.
Thankyou.