Hi Rich,
First of all, welcome to the pain board, although I am sorry you have need of us!
The problem most people run into when they become a Cper due to an accident at a fairly young age, is that doctors want to and are trained to see your problems as acute, thats is to say basically an emergency situation that should heal and have you back to normal in a relatively short amount of time.
To treat you for that, they usually prescribe pain meds, and ice or heat or rest and maybe a short stretch of physical therapy.
If you dont heal and get back to normal fairly quickly, or if other problems arise, they will usually ship you off to a specialist.
If the specialists cant find anything 'treatable', as in something they can fix surgically, they will boot you back to your primary.
At that point, hopefully you have a doctor that will look into pain management for you. more and more primary care doctors are doing this, but a lot of them just start refusing to give you more pain meds, and basically tell you to learn to live with it.
At that point the ball is in your court. you can insist on seeing more specialists, having more tests, but again all they will be doing is looking for a surgical solution, if they dont find one, back you go to primary.
IMHO, first you need to make sure there is not an underlying cause for your pain that needs to be treated and may in fact 'cure' your pain. It may come about as it did for a lot of us on here, either the surgery doesnt fix it, or they cannot find anything to even operate on and you remain in pain.
Then you have to go to your primary and ask if they will treat you as a chronic patient, if not, will they refer you to a pain management clinic, or another doctor who will treat CP? If the answer is no, keep looking, ask around, call teaching hospitals, and use this board as a support site, and possible guide to pain management clinics in your area.
The bad news is there is no one standard of care in CP. you could go to 4 places that all call themselves pain clinics, and find a huge difference in what they offer and how they approach pain management. You will eventually find the right place for you, maybe fairly quickly, so try not to be discouraged.
Hope this helps, I look forward to reading your posts and getting to know you better. There are some amazing people on this board, you have for sure come to the right place!
Your Friend, Fabby