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Old 05-21-2008, 03:07 PM   #1
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Getting Past The Front Desk!

I dread calling my doctor. Does anyone else have a lot of trouble? And if so, what do you do? I try not to bother my doctor at all, but when I need to get a message to him its horrible. I adore him, and he always apologizes profusely if he doesnt get the message. We have a very good doc pt relationship as well. I try to make it brief and quick as well...
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Old 05-21-2008, 04:14 PM   #2
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Re: Getting Past The Front Desk!

Izzy,

Are you trying to work the change in meds?

If so, as I wrote to "specialty" this needs to be done in person. I have yet to see a doc that feels comfortable doing this over the phone. And I, for one, would never attempt to do this over the phone, even with my wonderful relationship with my docs.

The chance for miscommunication is just too high. Even if you are doing a good job of making your point, you don't know what distractions he has going on around him. Shoot, he could be trying to see three patients at once, all in different rooms, doesn't want you to feel badly because you can't reach him, and he mis-hears something you say because of background noises, and WHAM! - he hears something that sets him off and he begins to wonder just what it is you are trying to do. Not suspicious, just surprised with something you may not even have said, but he heard it the wrong way. And this one call could permanently change his estimate of you, because he may always remember what he thought you said. Something he hears from others that are abusing the system.

I just wouldn't chance it - if it's the subject of changing meds. Even though you have to travel to see him I think it's worth it.

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Re: Getting Past The Front Desk!

Steve,
No this is for anything. I needed to ask himj about something for my son last week, and same thing. Im asking how others deal with certain issues, as in miscommunication, messages not getting relayed for days, ect.
I will ask him when he calls if he would llike me to come in for an appt, I have no problem with that. Its driving in the car the 9 hours, and Im already in a really bad spot pain wise.
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Re: Getting Past The Front Desk!

I'm starting to experience this too.

I used to be able to get a call back from my doc the same day, every time. No exceptions.

Now it's almost automatic that his nurse will call me first wanting to screen the call, find out what's up and try to handle things so as not to bother the doc. And I love his nurse. We get along very well. In fact, the whole staff is marvelous - never any problems. Except, regardless of who it is, they cannot relay the message the way I want it relayed. It's just too easy to misunderstand, or not understand at all. I call very rarely, and when I do I want to speak with the doc directly. From where I sit, that doesn't seem to be such a difficult request. But I know the doc is getting busier and busier all the time. I see it when I do go in. So I kinda understand. Now I just tell the nurse that it's personal and the doc had requested that I call him regarding the matter (even if it isn't true). That's how I get him to call me. Because he's so busy, and can't really recall if I'm telling the truth or not, he gives me the benefit of the doubt. So, I manipulate the system a little bit. Doesn't make me feel too badly.

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Re: Getting Past The Front Desk!

Izzy is it possible to email him directly. Since he is so far away maybe he would be willing to consider this. I have the flexibility to email my doctor and I love it.

 
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