Kim,
God does not punish. He does nothing but forgive. It says in the Bible that God forgives 7x7x7 infinitely. He would never punish anyone. He did not do this to you. Things sometimes just happen. Everyone, even good people, have bad things happen to them. Please don't let this horrible person get to you. She obviously has no idea what she's talking about, and it's people like that, that makes me wish that God did punish! Anyway, you suffer because someone else did something wrong to you... It is in no way your fault or something that you have done to yourself or deserve! You will suffer everyday of your life, and she will never understand until she's in a world of pain. I wish people like that experienced one day in our lives just to see what we go through.
And by the way, tell your co-workers that it's not their business to be telling your business to people. Especially if you're going to get spoken to like that. You're lucky you're not me... I would've been fired, because I probably would've hit her.
But please don't let her words hurt you. You hurt enough, and she's just an ignorant idiot. Just remember that God is not punishing you. I will pray for you, my dear sweet friend, Kim.
Have a better evening, and please try to forget what she said to you, because you should know better than to believe that God would actually want to hurt anyone, especially such a kind, caring, giving person such as yourself.
Much

my sweet friend,
Crystal