Thank you for your reply.
I am not sure if I made this clear in my description, but I do not suffer from blushing at all. I am not a shy person and I don't blush that easily. This is an actual flushing from my chest, up my neck and to my face caused by some kind of nervous/paranoid reaction about it happening in the 1st place.
When I am in a social situation I feel myself getting warm, then I get anxious and worry the flushing will start.. 9 out of 10 times it does and it is terrible.
I was talking to my Mother about it and she said the problem is that I expect this to happen in these situations, it is on my mind and that is what triggers off the nervousness and flushing i guess?
Also the hardest part is the more people who notice and comment on it, the more this is damaging me psychologicaly and the worse I get in each social situation.
I am finding it so hard.
Hope you or anyone else can help.