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When I first had panic attacks years back, the car was the worst place. I wont go into details because in the end a panic attack is a panic attack. Something I realized is that even though they occured, I made it through and I never gave up driving. I still have anxiety (not panic) when I drive, I'd say 65% of the time but it is getting better. Memory really plays a key role with this (actually with any avoidance behavior). I tell myself over and over that it isn't the car (restaurant, movie theater, store, etc..) it is what I am telling myself about the situation. So if I tell myself I will be anxious, I will. If I tell myself something positive like "I'll be okay, nothing is going to hurt me" and so on, it wont. All this takes time so give yourself permission to feel the anxiety, learn to float with it and it will pass. Distractions are wonderful also. Keep a bottle of water with you, count numbers by 2's, listen to music and sing along with it, listen to audio books in the car, whatever you can think of to help you along.
Silvana
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Cesar DeAguilar
Indurrence begins when everyone else has given up and you are in competition with yourself.
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