Re: please help!
In my opinion it is not the best choice for you. Why not look for a fella that does not carry baggage with him. Same is true for women too. Since you have not been married, wouldn't it be wonderful to start out with someone that is not a cast off regardless of circumstances. Yes, I will get flack for that statement, but, you are young and just now starting out to look over the crop of eligible fellas. Don't be hasty. He had his first time around and you deserve the same.