My boys are 3 and 21 months. My 3 year old will be 4 in October so we are getting closer. He, the oldest one, wants NOTHING to do with the potty. Running water while he sits there does nothing, underwear does nothing, setting a timer and taking him does nothing, promises to do things or get things does nothing, and the list goes on. This boy does not want to go on the potty and even dislikes his pull up being changed. He is fully content to let his butt fall off in the mess he creates.
Skip to the 21 month old. He takes his diaper off 3-4 times a day, has been found sitting fully clothed on the potty, runs to the potty if you want him to go, and will potty if you mention the word water... He's my gung ho guy. He has never gone to the bathroom on the toilet but you can tell that he gets the whole idea.
Here is the problem... Do we just leap frog the 3 year old for now? Do I push harder and try to potty train them both at the same time? I am about ready to throw the 21 month old in a pull up and tape the 3 year old to the toilet until something happens