I'm not sure which board to post this on, so I'll start here..............I have a three year old who was breastfed a year, then I tryed to put him on cow's milk but it made him very upset at his stomach within minutes and he'd break out in rashes, so we put him on soy milk. He'd been on soy for a year and then we decided it might not be too good for him so we put him back on real milk last summer. ARound this time he was in the terrible two's and he had really bad tantrums mostly just around me, some around my husband and rarely around friends (they didn't understand what I was dealing with, going crazy and wanting to hurt him because he'd yell at me, scream, kick and if I put him in his rooom, he'd yell for 30 mins, which I couldn't take) So, a couple of weeks ago I was talking to my mom about him and these fits and we had noticed on days he had less milk he was much better (less bouncing off walls, less arguing, easier to get along with, WAY LESS YELLING) so we took him off milk and he's a different kid. Even sleeping BETTER!!!! So, my question is this, what is this, an allergy??? A sensitivity, could it be the hormones in milk?? I have a friend who went through this exact same thing, she is why I even thought to try to take him off milk and see what would happen. Her child was diagnosed as ADD, that's how bad milk makes them act. They go crazy and are impulsive and unruly. anyone ever hear of this?