The other night my wife found my 12 yr old son masturbating, she was freaked out and shocked. I know that kids now a days grow up alot sooner then we did when we were kids. she know wants me to talk to him about this. I know this subject has been talked about on here before, but any advice would be great. She's having a hard time dealing with the fact that her little boy is growing up.
Its natural. Instead of having a talk with your son maybe you should have a talk with your wife. If you haven't had a talk to your son about sex yet, its long overdue.
and your just gunna embaress the poor guy sooo much if you talk to him, his prob embarssed enuf with your wife finidng him...(if he noticed her anyway)....just leave it, his not doing anything wrong
Just let your son know to do these things in private...and that it's totally normal. End of story with him. Tell your wife to start knocking loudly and waiting before entering the room. And I agree that you should have a talk with your wife. Unfortunately her "baby" is entering the world of raging hormones! Maybe she needs a lighthearted book on the subject from Santa.