Re: Please Help Me !!!!!!!!
Dude, this is one big mess you are in there! She is not responsible at all and this relationship, if we can call it that to begin with, has disaster written all over it. How old are you guys? It sounds like as if you are fairly young. You have not really stated if it is your child she is pregnant with. And if she says it is yours how do you know?? It sound like the lady has a lot of fun with other guys too. I would kick it back a few notches and stay out of her life for a while and seriously do NOT think about marriage. That will never work. She can not even hold an appointment she made with you without lying to you! What do you think will happen when you are married and the "real life" and responsibilities of a marriage/family begins? If it is indeed your child (you may have to find out through a test) then you have to stand up to your responsibilities as a father and pay but marriage is not a solution to your problem, at least not at that stage in your lifes.