If you go to the Relationship Health thread, on the fourth page (as of today)
married with step children...started by Beth Ann, there are 48 replys (as of today
) you'll find some good input, maybe some helpful advice, and my LONG post reply to that thread....
Let me know if you have any questions - I'll be on the boards tomorrow morning..
P.S. - I think it's WONDERFUL of you to look for support, advice and others experience to guide you in becoming part of this boys life....Sounds like your already doing a good job and headed in the right direction.