Re: for the daddy's
well...I'm not a dad, and if its done simply and tastefully, I don't see why not!
but...I just want to say I think its great you acknowledge their son's memory that way. My stepsister, lost her first baby at his birth... during the pregnancy, my mom had made a blanket for him, and embroidered his name onto... A year after he passed, I thought of it, and told my mom she should still give her the blanket... only to find out my mom had UNDONE the embroidery, and gave the blanket to someone else. I thought it was so sad...almost symbolic of "erasing" the baby...my mom thought it would be "too painful".... i disagreed...
Wonderful way to honor BOTH children!