I've enrolled my 4 year old in basic movements and music class. She was doing fine. Last time she was crying and didn't want to go. My father who took her; said that we should of have talk with her before. He also thinks; that same way she may not want to go to school, and what will I do.
I've no idea what could of happened and how I can affect her.
She does not have to go to movement and music class, so I wouldn't make her if she's adamant about not going. But, you could try giving her a choice of days. For example, you can present her with a choice of going this day OR that day. Having a choice in the matter might empower her a bit and make her feel more like going.
School is another matter; has she refused to go to school?
It is too early for her to go to school. We have to wait for 1.5 year. I am signed her for one day, it is not like I can change days. I don't see how another day will be different in her case. I know what you mean. I am attending parenting class and they suggest giving alternatives and in some cases it works.