Re: 4 year old activities
The wanting your attention may be the key there.. my son just wants to relax and get mommy and daddy time after day care. He will sit and wait for his daddy to get home and chime in.. I haven't had Daddy time yet. He can not be diverted from getting time with his parents, I am glad he wants to spend time with us.
At four your child should be able to tell you why they don't want to go to swim class. Ask her, she might suprise you with her answer. You might be able to turn it around and make it parent and me time during the lessons, by working on you own with her.
My son is a fourth generation duck. He will barrel in the pool anytime he gets a chance.. he wants to play versus learn to swim.. he also hates having to depend on someone else.. he is at the peek of his independence phase... I swear he got both of our stubborn genes.
If we learn by our mistakes, I am working on one hell of an education.