Re: mother of 27 yo daughter who does not speak to her
I will be your daughter if she doesn't want to be anymore!!!
I think you have given your daughter way too much! Give her the time she needs. She will always "need" something from you from the sounds of your relationship. She sounds just like my husband, a taker. His parents are always there to bail him out.
Me on the other hand,I have had to work for everything i have ever had. My parents could care less if i or my family is in need. I think it is funny. I am the black sheep of my family, yet I have never been arrested, I am married, with a three year old, I don't drink (can't really, medical reasons) . I did party back in my early twenty's (now 26). Just to tell you how much my parents dislike me, My sister (just turned 18) wanted to go to college in the same city as me. She was not aloud, b/c I am a bad influence! I am not sure when I am going to have the time to turn my sister into a bad person! I go to college myself, married, have a three year old, Plus I am pregnant with twins! Agh! Sorry for the rant! I just wanted to vent a bit!.
About to you, just cut her off. don't be there when she needs something, and she will stop using you. I can't image being that ungrateful!
Best of luck! Kiesha