Heck NO we don't live together! There is no way I would let this man move in with me. When he got evicted because he gave his rent money to his 28 year old, I did NOT offer my home to him. As a matter of fact, he slept in his car a couple of nights (I didn't find that out until later), but NO I can't do that. I did give him deposit money to put down on a new place, but I won't ever do that again either. I've tried to tell him that he's make the situation worst with the 28 yr old, but he told me that I dont understand. I dont' understand....ooooooookay.
Here's my story;
MY 28 year old daughter was born with a cleft lip and palate and she had 6 facial surgeries during her high school years, and in spite of that, she graduated high school with a 3.9 gpa, received a full academic scholarship to the Univ of KY, graduated college in 3 1/2 years (with honors) and is now a successful pharmaceutical sales rep and owns her own home. AND HE'S TELLING ME I DON'T UNDERSTAND?!!!!!!!! Uh I would say I DO understand what it takes to raise a confident, independent young lady. And I did all of this ALONE with no help from my philandering husband (at the time).
And not only that, but as a child, I was raised with a sister a year older than me that was a juvenile diabetic and she was sick her entire life, so I know what it's like to live with a sick sibling. My boyfriend uses that excuse for his 28 yr old that she's stressed having to live with a sick sister.
As you can see, i've lived with challenges all my life, so I'm not the one to give excuses to!!!!!!!!!!!!
I just hate to throw in the towel on this relationship. I'll have to figure out how to live with it