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Old 10-09-2003, 11:32 AM   #1
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How did your appointment go w/the lawyer yesterday?

 
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Hey There!

Well..when we got there our lawyer gave us a copy of a letter bob's father had written stating that he really didn't make a lot of money etc. however since Bob went to such a "highly regarded christian" school he would be the sole provider of the child support that we recieve because he didn't want the "word" to spread to the school board as Bob would be kicked out. He basically said he would pay whatever my lawyer suggested. They want nothing to do with Austin. So, my lawyer calculated all that Austin requires and came up with a rough figure of 600 something a month. I told him my fears of them coming back asking for custody etc. He promised that that day would never come because I have raised this baby since day one and that he doesn't think they want to take him. I dunno...that doesn't seem like a good enough answer to me. He also said that we couldn't get anything in writting saying they want nothing to do with him because a document like that would mean nothing unless it was stamped and signed by a judge. Bob's father also wrote how he didn't want to go to court and they just wanted to make a "settlement". This is not a car accident where we get a large lump sum of money and it's over with. It's so much more than that. Those people just make me so angry. They refuse to meet with us as a group and talk this out. Sounds to me like they are ashamed of how they are acting. They should be!! I sware I was so angry you could see the steam coming out of my ears!! But, whatever I have to do to secure Austin a happy future..so be it. I have to get back to the lawyer with my decision. My family and I have decided to sit down this weekend and discuss everything.

Thanks so much for asking about me!!

 
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Hi Littleone:

Keep us updated. You are such a strong and sweet girl. You are a great mom! Remember that always.

How's that baby of your anyway?

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HEE, HEE - If he wants make a "settlement", calculate up the costs of how much it will cost to raise Austin until his 18th birthday and present him with that! However, for your own protection, try not to have anything to do with these people outside of lawyers. Who really knows what they're up to!

 
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I'm not sure if "settlements" can be paid in monthly installments.

 
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