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Old 08-28-2010, 08:51 PM   #1
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Help relationship and step parent

I have been in a relationship for three years. He had twins that are 3 years old now from a previous marriage. We have a 10 month old together. We fight everyday (the silent treatment for days) mainly about the twins so I think. He does not believe in structure for them he says they are only three. They wine for everything and if they don't get their way they throw a fit and start crying. I am judged, no matter what I do with them is wrong. The twins have no schedule, but my 10 month old does. I feel as I am fighting a loosing battle. I am the most unhappiest I have ever been.

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Old 09-02-2010, 07:21 PM   #2
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Re: Help relationship and step parent

I suggest that you find someone to talk to about this relationship. Perhaps a marriage and family counselor. Ideally, your boyfriend should go, too--but if he refuses, then you should go. There seems to be a lot going on here. Your happiness is important. I know you have your baby to consider, but is staying with this man necessary? This problem will likely get worse as the kids age.....

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