When I get extremely mad at someone, and have a big argument, I storm off, but within a few minutes the whole reason I was arguing is completely gone from my head, and all I know is that I'm furious about SOMETHING.
Like the other night it happened, just before bed. When I went to bed I couldnt remember what it was even about. I lay there trying to remember it for like an hour. All I could think was all these different arguments I'd had with this person before, but I had no idea which I was mad about.
And "productive arguing skills" dont work for me either. I phase out before it gets worked out. And if it does work out, its probably because I've lost touch with the situation and have lost interest.
It's like something explodes in my head, and covers everything, so I can never really get to anything, and I have to abandon the whole thing, until the haze is gone. It's very frustrating. It seems at times like this, the harder I try to remember, the more I forget. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/tired.gif