Sweety, I feel so devastated, because I have seen the adult children who are still struggling in life to overcome their past childhood fears. You need to put the past behind you starting now, it is not a good idea to dwell on the past, because its something we can not change. There are some awful things that happen to the nicest people, but hon, it is up to us not to play the victim any longer.
The more time you have to sit and thnk about your catastrophic childhood, the more enraged and bitter you'll become. Don't do that to yourself, be positive. I know it is hard, but believe me, if you can get through this, you can do anything
. You really need to love yourself and find some peace of mind and happiness in your life, since life is short, and you should not be living your life in misery about something you had no control over.
My long time childhood friend and I were talking the other day about some circumstances she just can't get over from her childhood. She is emotionally scarred for life because of it. I told her, in the best way I could, that she really needs to embrace that part of herself, then let it go like a helium balloon taking flight into the sky. I know, weird way to describe it, but really she listened to me and cried and said she was thankful for me just listening and trying to help.
Try writing a journal, it does wonders for someone who is down and depressed, and I bet it will make you feel better. You may also benefit by discussing your deep seated issues with a counselor, it works for some, but not all. Give it a try, and try to remain positive
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