travinda

ive been in a relationship for 5 years,its been a bit off and on(currently off) due to a few probs i had to overcome. after lots of counciling, assesments, cognitive therapy and relationship counciling i feel great,
so why do i feel like a looser?
after doing everything to sort my past issues, the point that has repeatedly come up is that if i wasnt in the relationship i wouldnt need councilling as my partner is narcisstic! its a big relief knowing the probs werent me, and i wasnt going mad as i thought, but ive learnt so much about this condition and how to cope with it, i want to help him as i still love him so much.
he pushes me away and still treats me the same, i just dont no how to help him to save our relationship