Originally Posted by TheGreatVorelli
I kno what you mean. I would like us to be married one day but i try not to push him and everything cause I kno how he is,and I believe he would come around if we stayed together. but it just shoulsnt hafta be that way. I have NO idea why he is thinking so far ahead-He always does and thats what makes me so mad is cause thats the only reason as to why we cant be together now..It makes no sence at all to me..It just really gets so annoying but i cant help the way I feel..I wish I could.
Thanks for the reply!
I dated a man like that too around 5 years ago. I was so crazy about him. He did the same thing. He would just disappear for weeks at a time, and then out of the blue, I would hear from him again and he would want to start up again.
There are men that are simply incapable or unwilling to commit and he sounds like one of them. Don't waste anymore time with this man!
The man I mentioned above caused me nothing but anguish and the relationship really did a number of my self esteem. Don't do this to yourself.
The best advice I can give is to completely ignore him if he contacts you again. Then, all you can do is "cry and find a new guy." Good luck.