1.) He seemed to know what he was doing the few times he did give me oral. But it was for a span of maybe one minute then on to other things.
2.) Yes I give him oral and do it often. And I told him how I have never enjoyed it until I was with him, which is true.
3.) I asked him to kiss me down there and he said he didn't want to.
He also has ADD so I think this may have something to do with it. He won't even let me give him oral for very long, he just wants the intercourse. It's not a huge deal, I enjoy sex with or without the foreplay. But hey a woman's clitoris shouldn't go ignored!
I made it clear the other day that I would like more foreplay and he took offense saying I don't enjoy sex with him.
Just seems if I say anything he gets upset and defensive but if I don't say anything then things will never get better. I'm being cute and sexy when I say these things too, not abrasive or accusational. Any ideas?