Re: Anyone else had this problem?
I understand your frustration because TTC becomes a job and can be just as frustrating. I know been at it for over a year. However, I don't see where your husband taking a pay cut will be in the best interest overall when you are trying to have a baby. Babies are expensive. I don't believe that you should cause problems for him at his work. His employer is not responsible for his personal life and that should have never been discussed with his supervisor. You and your husband want to get pregnant then you guys need to work it out. If if means waking up in the middle of the night or getting some BD in before you go to work, then so be it.
I think you need to stretch your imagination a little. There is something to the saying "Half the fun is getting there...." Try as much as you can to enjoy the process.