I know there are things they can do to manipulate things - once you've gone long enough for them to say you have fertility problems.

But right now I'd worry about getting over this and THEN start talking to your Doctor about fertility issues.
If your husband is still in the military they have an excellent infertility program at Walter Reed for very little money (which is nice because Tricare pays for almost nothing), but you have to cover your own travel. I know - I am having babies 2 and 3 that were made in their lab there in a couple months.

Part of the protocol you spend a month on BC pills, a month shooting up with hormones to super ovulate (and have a period in there), and then they do the extraction. Some people can conceive just by using the medication - without the in vitro. I was not one of them, but I knew some who did. Good luck!