seema, it is true that tiny cysts on the ovaries appear each month, but some months may not be as severe as others...it also depends on what day of your cycle that you are on, since most of those cysts are really follicles, and somtimes are extremely small and hard to see.
I think Amy is right that you have to keep looking for the right doctor who will be able to make a decision on whether or not you do have PCOS and who will help you TTC.
And so you know, not all PCOS women have severe forms of hirutism (hair growth). Some women have a few stray hairs and more like fine hair in the rest of the places. Also, everyone's bodies react to PCOS differently, so one person may have a mild case and another may have a severe case and have totally different symptoms.
Good luck to you and hang in there!