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OMG Sid---what a nightmare I have had in the past couple of days. Planned a 50th suprise party for hubby way back in Nov. Everything was done ,planned and ready to rock. I spent the day trying to keep him occupied as he was a little sad that no one called. LOL Just as I was putting my coat on to get him there my 2 temp crowns fell out. SInce i didn't have root canals done, they were just totally drilled out of all decay and nothing more than stubs,but still the nerves are there, the pain started. I wanted them both pulled a year ago but 4 dentists fought me. should have stuck to my guns and that was my first **** off. Now he didn't want to go to the dinner he thought i was taking him to becuase he knew i was in pain but I had 60 people waiting there. We get there and one of our guests who I only invited because they grew up together but against my better judgement had also invited 6 other old friends of his that were the rudest, no class people I had ever met. One of them attacked me before i even had my coat off telling me that they couldn't smoke in the room which i knew and that the bartender told them 3 times with an attitude (yeh right) then he proceeds to tell me that IF something is said again he is going off and I had had it. I told him in no uncertain terms that he wouldn't do crap on my money if if he wasn't happy there to get his wife and the rest of his table and leave. I was so overwelmed between my crowns flopping all over my mouth, 60 people I'm trying to acknowledge and the pain that I was just digusted but tried a smile for hubby. Now i'm trying to work the crowd to say hello to everyone and couldn't talk as I was afraid i would spit my teeth out at someone , go ahead and laugh i did after the fact. I was afraid to take them out and get anything in the wholes. I tried toothpaste to hold them tight but nothing. finally i stuck a wad of gum in there and that held but too late.By that time it was an hour and a half maybe more since we got there. food was put away and i never ate, mingled, did anything all night. I was so dissapointed. hubby had a blast and everyone understood how i felt. Hubby finally went over and told this table to leave . they were still smoking and using the china to put their butts out in. On the way home i was starving and could only get McD's since that's all that was open but had to eat. spent all day sunday trying to relax, took the teeth out overnight so i wouldn't choke on them, then tried fixodent (DUH) and that worked through sunday. I am so annoyed. this has been a year and no permanents yet. I go today to have an assistant put the temps back in since my dentist in on vacation and then next week the permanents will be put on. I will never go against myself again. If I had them pulled last March the way I wanted this would have never happened. Alot of time and money and I couldn't even have a good time. So i visited here yesterday and sunday but was so overwelmend that i couldn't post or even concentrate on what i was reading. Mind is doing pretty good, hubby and I talked alot about the creeps that were there and he knew i invited them for him but we are both done with them. These people didn't even respons that they would be there or not and idn't even bring him a card. they drank, ate , smoked and left. Weeding through the bad. I;m OK , i'm just disgusted with people and annoyed at myself for not holding my ground with my own mouth. never again. i learned my lesson.

thanks for caring my friend,
Grasshopper xo